Who's fault is it?

Din really know how much i miss SG Tv until i watch this taiwanese game show... Its not those typical Jacky Wu kindaf crap (well, i like crap too) but its something of like a court case where celebs get to ratify the scandals the paparazzi created... Was so engrossed in it tt i din realise tt i was gonna be late fer my meeting wif frens until like err... 5 mins past e meeting time... Well, below is a lil description of wad the show is about..
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There is this celeb who's being accused of "dao chu fang dian" (everywhere put electricity, i.e. keep attracting guys... ) As usual, she plead innocent and then the host called upon witnesses and then let her clear stuff up... She has this lil scandal wif this guy who is younger than her... Apparently she counselled him until they became very close... But when questioned, she says she knows tt the guy likes her, but she dxn like e guy... then they called upon this 2nd witness which is, the guy itself... Then he told e host n "jury"(made u of other celebs) about wad happened btw him n her... She'd like complain of aches and he, being gd at massaging, would just help her massage, until e pt tt its like a standard thingy... Then when she tired, she'd like put her head against him... She even like knock on his door to ask him to go over her room to teach her how to sing( yes, kindaf funny but it seems as though she dxn know how to sing n need help) once late at night... N she even sent smses like "Hey, wad are u doing now? Must be picking up some ger right? Better call me back fast else i dun talk to u liaoz..." hmm... If u think this is awkward, then u haven seen the better part... They called upon a 3rd witness, another fren of this celeb.. N he revealed tt he's hurt, cos everything she n e previous did, they did it too... *thunder n lightning*
N he even read out one of her smses... Which is exactly e same as the one she sent to the previous guy... Omg... then she was like err... While the host tried to mitigate the effects by questioning the guys instead of the celeb... Though the eventual verdict was tt she does anyhow "fang dian" but one of the jury pointed out another pt tt the guys are at fault too, for having e wrong impression...
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I was so amazed at the awkwardness that ensued when the guys met n the celeb was like dunno wad excuse to give fer sending the same sms to 2 ppl with such content... But yet, she may be juz out to like have fun, or put it badly, flirt with others... Juz tt the guys treat her more seriously than she treats them... But where shd the limit lie? Guys like to be loved, n generally, they'll like those that like them... So this impression tt the ger likes them will be subconsciously built into them, until the point tt they become so nice to e ger tt they begin to like her... Yet, the ger treats them as her gd frens or normal frens only... So e qn lies: is the ger totally at fault? Or shd the guys be blamed for being too sensitive?

Someone told me this: There is no hard n fast rule fer the limit, but rather, the limit shd be set depending on the person who is being flirted... Hmm...

Random quote of the day: "We shd nv base our expectations of others by what someone else is or does"
=====> Juz becos someone is nice to us, dxn mean tt everyone has to be this nice to us ... This certain trait tt he has shd be a privilege for us, not an entitlement.